Author of: Pieces of Me Still Awake. Can be found on Amazon.

Everyone on this planet deserves to live free from hate regardless of skin color, sexual orientation, gender identity or religious background. Just remember, "And it harm none, do as Ye will."

P.S. I will not engage haters. If you insist on leaving hater messages, they will be deleted and I will block your access to this channel.


Tomi Fields

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Tomi Fields

Some people like pickles, some don’t. Some people like chocolate, some don’t. Some people are religious and believe one way, while others believe something completely different. Some people like Trump, some don’t. People like what they like. It’s because we are all different. Why is it so hard to just let people like what they like? Whether you agree with it or not. Trying to change someone’s views is like them trying to change yours. It’s a circle. Literally a never-ending circle. Religion, politics, and money will always separate us. If we allow it. I am not a Christian, but my sister is. We rarely talk about it and we get along famously. I love her. I accept her for the things we HAVE in common. I respect her for the things we disagree on because those are her choices, her likes, the things that make her happy. She never forces her faith on me, she never forces her political stance on me, I actually don’t know what her political stance is. I try hard not to push my ideas on her. And that’s ok. 


I am not and will never say racism, sexism, ageism, homophobia, transphobia, rape, murder, beating, sex trafficking, or any of that is ok. NEVER! It’s never ok. These things are seething and wrought with hate. I reject hate. I would rather have a dialogue and find out why they feel that way. Why do you hate? And please refrain from using religion or politics. Why do YOU hate? Look deep inside first, think about your answer, contemplate. If that hate and pain go deeper, from something long ago, process it. Discover the pain, talk with it, find out why it’s still there, and then, let it go. Anger is a terrible place to live in.


If I want someone to respect my ideals, then conversely, I must respect yours; I am liberal with a touch conservative. I believe in a lot of things, I will not go into them because they are mine. I will not try to change your mind on anything because your ideals belong to you. Instead of seeing everything we hold different, can we just try… just try to see what we have in common? I see so many meme’s saying we are all in this together but we aren’t. Some are, some are single-minded, some want to riot, some want to sit down, with arm raised high, like a fist through water lilies. Look that one up, it’s a great poem, Waterlilies. My point, aren’t we tired of constantly being pitted against each other? As long as we stand apart, we fall. Aren’t you tired of fighting, arguing, hating, yelling, screaming, pushing, beating, stamping, and just plain angry all the time? I’m exhausted from it. I don’t know about you.

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